Ever had that moment? You get a haircut. You take a chance. You try a new style. Then, you look in the mirror…”Oh no!!!” Horror sets in. You start sweating…all while trying to keep your composure as you pay for services rendered. Then you get to your car where the REAL freak-out begins. It might be JUST what you need.

It’s official. I have a teenager. I couldn’t be more proud of my little boy. I am just as proud of our relationship. Our relationship is no joke. Our relationship is also no accident.

I’m not a movie-watcher. Seriously, ask my family. I either don’t have the time or patience to sit through movies. However last night I had a rare free-night alone at home, so I watched The Matrix. Wow, what a movie!

When you don’t choose to create your story, you defer life. You leave it up to chance. You become a bi-product of the world. You’re losing by default. You’re not stewarding your time and life wisely. You leave it up to chance. You become a bi-product of the world.

I had the privilege to speak to nearly 70 men this weekend. One of the main challenges I posed to them was to tell the truth. I’m not talking about little white lies. I’m talking about powerfully living in truth.